Hello! Welcome to my Modern Love Coaching services. If you are new to coaching, let me share more about what it entails!

 

Traditional Love Coaching focusses directly on finding love again in dating and matchmaking, whereas the modern approach looks to support the whole picture (past, present, and future self). I help you understand your love foundation, style, and identity to better help you navigate and witness success in goals, relationships, romance, career, purpose and so much more. My goal for you is better alignment in all of the above! When we can do that, additional great things happen such as reduction in anxiety, elevated clarity, trust in self and decision making and so much more. It's truly life changing! Let me share more insight below. ​

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​Every single human on this earth seeks some form of connection. Most of us desire a kind of connection that soothes our soul, understands us, see's us, and allows us to be our truest selves. The kind of connection that speaks love and nourishes our deepest vulnerabilities. We want this deep down in our careers, relationships, and life. And if anyone tells you that they do not, it's simply not true. We will learn more about that at a different time and the various protective mechanisms we create to keep us safe.  We all want healthy love and alignment, yet a huge majority of us feel off in our relationships, life or career. One element that drives this is based on our internal love wiring and conditioning from birth. Stay with me! ​​​​​

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From a young age, we learn what love means and what it doesn't, even if this contradicts our soul's definition. You know that floaty feeling inside where you just feel so good? Maybe someone said you look great today or made it a point to tell your how much they appreciate you. It's that high in healthy serotonin and a powerful feeling of being fully seen and heard. We crave this during normal interaction or conflict repair with lovers, co-workers, or friends.  However, what we end up developing a comfort or familiarity for is the love that was conditioned into us. Sometimes it's exactly what we need (healthy) and sometimes it is not.

 

If you grew up in a calm household with caregivers that were patient, open and honest about feelings, you have an affinity for it. If it was chaotic, avoidant, or anxious in nature, you also initially feel better with that.  While this information isn't new to our world, what is expanding is the ability to recondition it with a unique approach.  Our love styles have the potential to control our future relationships and careers that we land.  If you don't get curious with this piece at some point in your life, then you may feel stuck in many areas. We find ourselves bored in life, and in relationships and careers that don't align. You may experience constant anxiety, staying in survival mode or self-soothing in unhealthy ways.

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With a focus on deep internal attunement, I can help you realign external aspects of your life. It takes time, as we are sometimes up against 30+ years of conditioning that we didn't know wasn't working. Through reconditioning, I have witnessed an immersion in voice, healthy thoughts patterns, communication, relationship alignment, and somatic wellness in my clients. I provide personalized guidance to empower you in discovering and sustaining your true love identity, style and foundation to create meaningful connections and environments that help you thrive. 

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The goal is to implement this work before you hit burn out. We are going to have FUN while doing it as well because this is coaching (very different from therapy). Imagine being loved in the way your soul needs and being playful in life again! Whether you're seeking support for yourself in self-love, your current relationships, life goals, career/purpose, dating confidence or new romantic opportunities, I'm here to support you. Let's create and shine again together!